Christians also aren’t supposed to engage in fornication, so you know. Expecting Christians in Western countries (don’t know about elsewhere) to follow their religion is generally futile.
But the vast majority of Christians (again, in Western countries) don’t do that, and I strongly doubt OOP’s girlfriend is the exception. So my point is: That ship has kind of sailed.
Christians also aren’t supposed to engage in fornication, so you know. Expecting Christians in Western countries (don’t know about elsewhere) to follow their religion is generally futile.
It’s completely possible to remain chaste until marriage.
But the vast majority of Christians (again, in Western countries) don’t do that, and I strongly doubt OOP’s girlfriend is the exception. So my point is: That ship has kind of sailed.