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Cake day: June 14th, 2025

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  • My husband and I got married in our backyard with just our immediate family in attendance (10 folks in total - my brother was our officiant), but we livestreamed it for others that wanted to see. I found a legit wedding dress for $70 and didnt bother with alterations cause it fit fine enough and I was only gonna wear it for several hours. I built the wedding arch we got married under, my mama did my hair and makeup, and my mama-in-law and sister-in-law cooked our reception food.

    We “got away with it” because it was during the quarantine period of the pandemic (NYE 2020). Even though my mom was pretty pissed at me for not having a real wedding, this is the way.




  • My husband and I designed and (literally) built our own shower. It was a bitch, but worth it because it made us think about things like this. It’s a nicely sized space split with a bath tub and shower. We’ve got a big waterfall shower head fixed at the center of the ceiling in the shower area, then a separate hosed shower head where one would normally place one. Then the other far end of the shower is slightly dryer with no direct water.

    Kicks ass for having shower sex. Also great for just shower and/or bath time together to vent/chat in the middle of our work day.

    cool shower