• Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    5 hours ago

    The attitude of “my intentions and want to start a conversation supersedes another’s right to avoid one” is the one of entitlement.

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      4 hours ago

      You can’t know how a person will respond to an attempt to start a conversation before you attempt to start one, so by your logic no one should ever talk to anyone ever.

      If a person doesn’t want to talk, they can say so directly (or more likely come up with some other excuse to evade it). But striking up a conversation in and of itself violates nothing.

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        4 hours ago

        The attitude that you are always in the right trying to have a conversation is entitled. Sometimes, you will be right, and sometimes you will be wrong. It’s up to you to be respectful when you are wrong.

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          4 hours ago

          It’s up to you to be respectful when you are wrong.

          I never said otherwise. Show me where I said “If someone makes it clear that they don’t want to talk to you, you should force them into a conversation with you to assert your dominance.” You can’t, because I didn’t say that.

          What I said was that there’s nothing wrong with trying to strike up a conversation, so whatever additional layers you’re trying to add onto that are merely strawmen.

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            4 hours ago

            Sometimes, there is something wrong trying to have a conversation. Just because you don’t know, doesn’t make it right.

            Not to say you should feel bad about it or anything. You didn’t know.