• Hideakikarate@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    Man, you’ve gotta find yourself someone who will listen. Wife and I do “check-ins” 2 or 3 times a week. A chance to talk about what we’re focusing on our worried about. It helps a lot, both ways.

    • Unpigged@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      4 days ago

      I’m not saying it’s not possible, but it’s rare. And your spouse/partner is only one person. Daily non romantic interactions also count.