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the key is to wash each other, not just take turns showering yourselves….
although shower sex is a lot trickier and not worth it….The risk of falling and causing a serious head injury is the sexiest part though.
how do you do anything in life if you’re always afraid of such risks?
That’s what makes it so much fun!
I mean, skydiving, base jumping, rock climbing skiing, etc, etc.
I love base jumping sex! Gotta finish quick before we’re too low to deploy parachutes!
One of those is not like the others :P
And I mean skydiving. Risks are so much lower. The other three, everyone seems to have a story about an injury. In skydiving, everyone seems to know one dude at the drop zone that has a story of an injury.
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Wet sex is dry sex
You’re right about the first part, the trick for the second part is just to shift shower time to be foreplay
It’s worth it if you have silicone lube… sometimes…
For when you want to come out of the shower water repellent, also if that gets on the shower floor it’s game over, someone’s gonna break a spine
Whenever I’m in there showering with my wife, it’s never fun, but it is important. Getting clean while discussing the impact of student loans on our budgets, worrying about politics, searching for hope, and drying off.
We come out better for it, but it’s nothing like what the movies suggest.
Do ya’ll not touch your partner? Wash they hair or sumthn. Jesus.
a lot of people don’t.
i’ve dated women who didn’t want me to touch/kiss them ever outside of sex. it was weird. i can imagine that some people tolerate that behaviour and just have a partner who never touches them. i will say they all had massive control/anxiety issues in other areas of their life as well. I’ve also had partners who hated certain sex acts that seemed perfectly fun/normal to me.
a lot of people have very strict beliefs about the context in which touch should occur even with romantic partners. or consider touch to be ‘dirty’
That’s valid but also kind of sad. I’ve dated ace before so I get that some people just aren’t wired for certain things. I but feel a little bad for people who can’t even have nonsexual contact free of shame, but maybe there’s a perspective I’m lacking. Just feels like shame should have no place in a relationship even if physical touch isn’t present either.
Some people just don’t like being touched. Sometimes it’s trauma, sometimes simple preference. It’s not always about shame
Sometimes it’s autism. Touch is a lot of sensory.
The other comments have stupid suggestions, the trick is that the one in the water pees on the other, that way no one stays cold.
My husband and I designed and (literally) built our own shower. It was a bitch, but worth it because it made us think about things like this. It’s a nicely sized space split with a bath tub and shower. We’ve got a big waterfall shower head fixed at the center of the ceiling in the shower area, then a separate hosed shower head where one would normally place one. Then the other far end of the shower is slightly dryer with no direct water.
Kicks ass for having shower sex. Also great for just shower and/or bath time together to vent/chat in the middle of our work day.
Nice work. I’d definitely have sex in your shower.
The simple solution is to be rich enough that you can afford one of those shower room things that shower you from every possible angle.
Ah yes, the answer to all my problems
I guess I just don’t get that. One of the primary things I do in the shower is step out of the stream so I can lather up and scrub. If the soap is constantly getting washed away, you’re wasting the majority of it.
If you can afford a shower room your soap budget is not an issue.
Please look away for a moment while I wash my groin.
My wife was horrified to discover I wash my ass crack with a face cloth.
How else do you get rid of the bits and pieces?
Erm. You’re in the shower. Use soap + your hands. Also there shouldn’t be larger “bits” there if you wiped properly… Eww
A bidet
I’m talking about the detritus that naturally builds up during the day.
I’m talking about the detritus that naturally builds up during the day.
That, especially combined with your username, paints a truely horrible mental image.
Now please excuse me while I find a spoon to physically remove the memory of that comment with.
A good wash cloth works wonders.
